My Profile

Ms. Farhat Bakhsh

age: 54 yrs

Residence: Mumbai India

Educational Qualification:

B.Com from Mumbai University

Post Graduate in Journalism & Mass Media from Ignou Delhi

Diploma in Cyber LAW

Certificate Course in Parental & Child Counselling

Worked singlehandedly with my NGO from 2009 till 2013 for children academically dealing with stress & stress management.

Was busy online throughout in a capacity of a blogger and wrote on various topics ranging from politics and world affairs.

Engaged socially & politically in the big fight time & again on different issues related nationally eg,Farm Laws & PIL for reopening of Train services in mumbai during covid.

Stood & fought for the justice for Babri Masjid for a no of years during the hearing.

Personal Life: Single mother for my son from Jan 2014.

Religion: Islam

Beliefs: Equality & Justice

Hobbies: sports, holding green belt in Karate

Food preference; Love Indian plain food.Also believe in good health depends on good food.

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Youth & I

10.39 a.m. 21 MAR 2023

It is quite a responsibility to deliver for the age group mentioned for I have not closely been with them except saw my son growing.The basic behavior I noticed that this is the time they demand complete freedom.And rightly so for by this stage they are mentally & physically fit to venture out & have their say.But at the same time they are very much raw.It is the time they will mould to any structure which they are put in.This is the time even as a parent or guardian you need to be very patient with them.

Looking at the time we are in & expose to technology, it is very easy that they become vulnerable.Unfortunately the positive forces are restricted particularly when the drug involved.People don't talk about it.They don't advertise much to prevent it.And there are no such prohibitory laws in place to deter them.Overall our social system makes them an easy prey.

Automatically the distance comes between you & them.It is also because they are searching for bigger or different interest and you're holding on with same old stories.You don't give them anything new, which they start searching outside.Most of them are either studying higher or taking a Job.In olden days parents used to secure their children by tying their knots, which is not that thing now because of high ambitions.Parents are opting for different roles for them except marriage, it is not even discussed mostly.

What I have done throughout recently that I forced myself on him even if it is unwanted.Sometimes You feel you're talking to a wall but still you look back & you see your baby smiling away.This humble advice to all of them there to get engaged with them in whatever way you can.Let them feel your presence 24×7 like other media.And be there when they call out to you.Don't know how it sounds but it means you are the world.Make them feel in that way.

And one imp piece of advice what my ma'am gave, is to tell them exactly where they err instead of mixing it with other issue.You need to be very direct & precise that is the logic.They tend to listen even if they will not show.And reward them when they excel or simply shower them with all the praise.

It is what they are doing matters.If you observe any different behavior or feel something wrong, you need to act immediately.If you notice he is keeping aloof or sleeping more or exhibit variation in behavior for a longer period, you need to take professional advice.It is the initial period matters.I will advice to move from that place always works.And sport, any kind is very big healer, is my own experience.So enroll them immediately.Sport make a person very nice or gentle.Good luck.

My Vision

https://www.dropbox.com/s/gk9g8u09jcqorem/Imp.mp3?dl=0

Say No to Drugs

Endorsing any kind of Drugs is a Crime

New Direction

There is an urgent need to give future generation a direction so that they come out of orthodox thoughts inculcated in them and to give them freedom to choose their ideas & hence a New Direction.

A Letter to Princess Of Wales

Dear Kate, 19' September 2023

You must be remembering, I don’t know whether You got it or not? I’d written this one poem at the time of your wedding.It was out of much excitement towards the ‘Royal’ wedding.That time I didn’t know much about Royal family &even Queen.I was not that attracted to Royal phenomenon, honestly speaking.Then the Syria war had just started I suppose.And there were few people online who really did mind it. But I still remember whatever I wrote it was really meaningful.I will try to reproduce it, if I get it in my archive.

Its been a long time and your passion did match to Queen’s on many occasions.At the same time one could feel You were doing everything or wanted to keep them all happy.At the same time you felt the same.But time changes and there are so much testing time we are put into.And of course missing Queen a lot.

People were delighted that a ‘commoner’ whom they can connect to is become a princess.But sometime I remember You ‘Over Did’ putting me in thoughts if something wrong with You? Then gradually You were adjusting in the Palace.Still one is bound to think, Are You Happy? Inner peace or happiness we all crave.You were blessed in a way for a whole lot of years in Queen’s company.You can’t keep everybody happy that is what I was reminded so many times.Fashion statement is always there I know but everything can’t be achieved with it.You have the power.Make use of it.Get engaged with something which is close to your heart.Which will save the people.But do select only one cause out of your different duties.Our ma’am had told once to me, if you save a single life also it is worth it.But by now You must have come to know there is a junoon on my head to save all at all time.Because of it I faced a lot.I didn’t want to settle down for less.

But in your case You need to.You’ve have over done.Now is the time to ‘let go’.Not that to start more and more and more.When my child was small (new born) my Aya advised me, Farhat you only take care of your child & forget everything.Pay attention to that only.You know people out there simply wants to confuse You.My advice would be same for You.Just Relax!And simply enjoy the moment, which is worth it.Good Luck! & Take care.